From Beginner to Demonstration Tyer: Lessons from My Journey at the Vise

I will always remember the day I fell in love with fly tying.

It was at the Denver Fly Fishing Show in 2023. I had convinced my wife to join me under the premise of finding a new spring and summer activity we could enjoy together. As newcomers to angling, the experience was both exciting and overwhelming. The show itself is a spectacle—drawing massive crowds each year—and for us, it felt like stepping into an entirely new world.

As we wandered through the venue, we came across “Tyers Row,” a long stretch of tables where skilled fly tyers demonstrated their craft. If you’ve never attended a fly tying expo, imagine a gallery of artists—each one behind a vise instead of an easel—spinning thread and shaping materials into intricate, lifelike flies designed to entice fish of every species. It was mesmerizing.

That same day, we discovered Colorado Women Flyfishers, a nonprofit dedicated to educating, promoting, and encouraging women in the sport. We joined on the spot, not fully realizing how impactful that decision would become.

In November 2023, I attended a weekend fly tying workshop hosted by the organization. I was immediately captivated. My enthusiasm must have been evident, because the instructor, Jane Retherford, asked if I had ever considered becoming a demonstration tyer. She shared her desire to see more women represented at tying events, noting that angling remains a predominantly male space. I didn’t hesitate—I said yes. Within just a few months, I found myself tying at multiple events.

Like Jane, I am passionate about increasing female representation in fly tying. Women are a growing presence in the industry, and a significant part of the history of angling. My hope is that events will increasingly reflect that reality. So how do you become a demonstration tyer?

If you’re interested in seeing yourself behind the vise at an event, here are a few lessons I’ve learned along the way:

Learn from others. One of the most remarkable aspects of the fly tying community is its openness. At any demo event, tyers are eager to share their techniques, insights, and stories. The depth of knowledge—and the willingness to pass it on—is unlike anything I’ve experienced elsewhere.

Develop consistency. Consistency reflects dedication. While we all tie flies that “will fish,” demonstration tying requires you to present your very best work. Clean, repeatable patterns show both skill and commitment to the craft.

Build relationships with local fly shops. Fly shops are hubs of community and learning. Many host open vise nights, where tyers of all skill levels gather to share ideas and improve together. Shops also organize seasonal tying demos, providing opportunities to learn from visiting experts. When you’re ready, consider asking your local shop if you can demonstrate—it's a great way to gain experience.

Engage with local organizations. Groups like Trout Unlimited, Project Healing Waters, or Casting for Recovery often welcome guest tyers. Offering to lead a short demo at a meeting is a meaningful way to contribute while building confidence and visibility.

Leverage social media. Social platforms can help you document your progress, showcase your work, and connect with other tyers. High-quality photos and videos not only highlight your skills but also serve as a portfolio when applying for events or brand partnerships. Sharing the materials and tools you use can also help others learn and engage with your content.

Embrace rejection as part of the process. This may be the most challenging lesson. As I grew more confident, I began reaching out to brands about potential partnerships. Not every response was what I had hoped for, but each one was valuable. Constructive feedback helped me refine my skills and stay motivated. Progress in this space requires persistence.

Above all, remember that every interaction contributes to your personal brand. Approach opportunities with professionalism, openness, and a willingness to learn. The reputation you build will follow you throughout your journey.

If you’re interested in becoming a demonstration tyer, don’t hesitate to reach out to event organizers and ask about the application process. The path is more accessible than you might think.

I hope to see more women represented along Tyers Row in the years to come. There’s nothing quite like watching a young angler approach your table, eyes wide with curiosity and excitement. In those moments, you’re reminded not only of where you began, but also of the future you’re helping to shape.

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